Perfectionistas & Other Nightmares

Years ago I read that the Dali Lama told Oprah there is no such thing as “perfect” when she asked him what his perfect day looked like.  She and her audience gasped then laughed at themselves. I’m trying to remember to laugh at myself often these days as I implement some new healthy habits.  I want to do it “right” and be “perfect” in my new habits.  Can you relate?  If so, keep reading.  If you are the Dali Lama, well, I hope you look good in … [Read more...]

Feminine Is the New Black! (And it looks great on you!)

Have The Goddess and The Feminine Reached a Tipping Point? I feel so full.  And a little bit self-satisfied!  Why?  I’m hearing and watching people talk about something dearest to my goddess-feminine-power-promoting heart – The Feminine! And not in the fluffy pink pillow, impossible to walk in pink strappy sandals or inappropriately revealing neckline way! (Yes, I love my fluffy pillows, strappy sandals and, well, mostly appropriate … [Read more...]

Pushback And Other Challenges Along The Way To Irresistible!

Do your panties ever get all twisty when you take on something brand new and ask for feedback?  Yeah, mine can, too.  That’s why I go to my inner circle and power tribe for feedback first. Here’s how it usually goes: You spend hours, days, maybe years thinking about and planning to implement an idea or dream.  Then one day, it’s ready “enough” and you reveal the beta version to a select group of your peeps. Your adoring fan friends will love … [Read more...]

This post is dedicated all of you that have ever been called a “control freak” or “controlling” or “bossy”!

Two Saturday mornings ago my boyfriend and I decided very last minute to meet for the 11:45 a.m. showing of “Born to Be Wild” – a fantastic documentary, by the way.  I spotted his car in the mostly empty parking lot and figured he’d be in line at the ticket booth.  He wasn’t so I went inside, hoping he was already getting the popcorn.  He wasn’t there either.  I fished my phone out of my purse as I went back outside and saw him walk from the auto … [Read more...]